The Law of Attraction
We are, in general, all attracted, either sexually, physically or even personally to another person or other persons. We do not know how, but there is something that triggers our desire when we see or meet a certain type of person. Without even understanding that individual, we know that they are "our type" and when we see this kind of an example of our type, we instantly realise the fact and we react to it by producing large amounts of pheromones.
There is a genetic trigger that urges us to find certain types of people that "fit" our taste in a partner. We have been, also by default, programmed to companions of a different genetic makeup so we can create stronger offspring because of a wider variety of genes.
Apart from the stereotype celebrities, actors and actresses, models and beautiful people whom we secretly and sometimes quite openly adore and feel attracted to, we all have our type", which includes body sort, body shape, hair colour, eyes and a whole lot of other physical attributes that trigger our desire. Personality will be of course another important factor; do we go for that outgoing and selfassurance or the warm and friendly, or even do we like the strong, quiet and intelligent type? We are all aware that for most women it is very important that a man can make them laugh. And frequently it's something different entirely in which heavily influences a partner choice: money!
Men subconsciously feel attracted to those women which remind them of the initial love of their lives: their mother, and equally women might have a preference for a man who reminds them in some ways of their father.
Research Has Found that a Mother Influences Her Son's Expectations
She indicates what she is looking for in a partner but she also influences her son on female characteristics. So if she is a warm-hearted and friendly person, her son will believe that that is a measure for the female species. Those sons are likely to grow up to become warm and responsive lovers who are willing to take more responsibility in the household.
Equally, a mother with a depressive personality who exchanges friendliness with times of coldness and rejection may raise a son who is afraid of dedication and who with regards to finding the right woman, will always be looking at the grass on the other side of the fence.
Daughters are Influenced by the Very First Men Love in Their Lives, Their Fathers
The fathers' character often determines how women relate to the opposite sex. Fathers who are very supportive may well raise daughters who are open and also supportive themselves as their particular fathers have made sure they always feel good about themselves. The opposite is true of girls whose fathers were distant, cold and critical. These people do not have such high degree of self esteem and this is reflected in their relationships.
Genetically, men are programmed to prefer ample breast and broad curvy body as this, in general, almost guarantees healthy offspring due to easy childbirth and also sufficient nourishment. Women genetically prefer the broad shoulders for protection and the firm muscled rear for sexual longevity increasing the chance of impregnation.
Spite of many years of the media's attempts to subdue the male preference for a curvy woman as well as the creation of the skinny woman as the ideal physique shape, in the 2 couple of years, curvy women are back onto the picture and also within fashion, the last stronghold of the hollow eyed "bag-o-bones" girl, designers are beginning to make use of more and more full figured females on their catwalks.
Many men, after many years of hiding the fact that they will preferred the fuller figure and were forced to seek interactions with slim females, do no longer need to hide the fact that they have a preference for a plus size figure. DatingBBW.co.uk, a long standing dating website in the United Kingdom has noticed the difference as more men join the site and more curvy women will use internet relationship to find a suitable partner who loves them for their curves and not in spite of all of them. Having a curvaceous amount has become once more the symbol of exactly what is attractive in a natural healthy woman.
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Gilbert is a content marketer at mystopgap.com, a site about health solutions. Last year, Gilbert worked as a blog curator at a well-known news startup. When he's not scouting for health articles, Gilbert enjoys sleeping and surfing.